

(Humans behavious still mostly eludes me though, totally illogical 🤨)
We’re not rational, but there are patterns. If you’re willing to do some reading Thinking: Fast and Slow is beefy, but helps to show some of the patterns of irrationality in a structured way, from one of the leading experts on human behavior. If that’s too much, Thinking in Bets is a nice taster that still is well backed by much of the same research, but is shorter and more accessible.
If you don’t immediately throw someone who doesn’t flush off of your property to never return, you’re nasty too.