When you vet someone for whether you can be close friends with them, what’s a seemingly unimpactful characteristic about someone that would instantly rule them out as a potential close friend for you?

Call me Lenny/Leni · 2Y

When you vet someone for whether you can be close friends with them, what’s a seemingly unimpactful characteristic about someone that would instantly rule them out as a potential close friend for you?

@chumbaz@lemmy.ml · 2Y

If they talk bad about other people, especially if you don’t know the would-be friend very well. If they’ll bad mouth other people to you they’re gonna bad mouth you to other people.