I read some people who vent on their posts or talk about problems they face in life and the replies they get is, no you are the problem, fuck you.
On Reddit, the only thing that is close to this is when women complain about their boyfriends, they got told to leave them, whatever is her complaint about.
Any explanation?
Disclaimer: I am not talking about my own experiences here, but rather what I read in other posts, my observations could be wrong.
The lemmyverse isn’t huge, but broad.
Unless you give some examples, people are probably going to respond based on what they saw somewhere else than where you were thinking of.
My best attempt at an answer is that lemmy has fewer long-term well behaving residents, so people coming from other platforms because they kept being banned for bad behavior or just kept not getting along, stick out more.
That’s a great point, and it’s an observable phenomenon of people showing up and talking about how they were banned from reddit, and a quick perusal of comment and post history shows exactly why they were banned - because they’re assholes.