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JackGreenEarth@lemm.ee to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.worldEnglish · 2 days ago

When talking to yourself, do you use the pronoun 'I' or 'you'?

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When talking to yourself, do you use the pronoun 'I' or 'you'?

JackGreenEarth@lemm.ee to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.worldEnglish · 2 days ago
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  • Elaine Cortez@lemm.ee
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    It varies between people, but for me it alternates!

  • ℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@slrpnk.net
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    “we” and other first-person-plurals

    • boatswain@infosec.pub
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      We’re right there with y’all.

  • qyron@sopuli.xyz
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    I, you, we and thou.

    As in:

    “What am I doing?!”

    “You’re getting older, not younger.”

    “Let’s not do this again.”

    “Thou have lost the little bit of reasoning you had left.”

    And it scares people.

    • CandleTiger@programming.dev
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      *Thou hast

      • Gloomy@mander.xyz
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        Thou hast mich

  • Jerb322@lemmy.world
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    Depends on if I’m mad at myself…

    “I should go get some food.”

    “You fucking idiot.”

  • thesohoriots@lemmy.world
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    Typically “you” if it’s in my head, but if said out loud it’s “I”

    • toy_boat_toy_boat@lemmy.world
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      i use “ye”, too, but only at renaissance festivals

  • KingOogaBooga@lemmy.world
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    We. You are a combination of all the entities living on or in you. We are Us.

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    I tend to just leave them out all together. Don’t know why though, maybe it’s faster?
    It feels a bit like when you read a book fast and skip over entire words.

    “Need to do some cleaning.”
    “How could this be done faster?”
    Or a common one:
    “Hungry” :)

    • ExperimentalGuy@programming.dev
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      Hungy

      • stinky@redlemmy.com
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        so humgry

  • JakenVeina@lemm.ee
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    Interesting that several people are reporting using “you” for negative sentiments, because I use “I” for those as well. E.G. “Well, I’m a fucking idiot.”

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    Mostly you

  • kubica@fedia.io
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    Both. And often also by name for some sarcasms.

    • stinky@redlemmy.com
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      Yeah this l me too. it depends on the context

  • squinky@lemm.ee
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    “We”. Not sure why. I guess it’s me and the person I’m talking to (who is also me)

  • Inucune@lemmy.world
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    3rd person.

    • JackGreenEarth@lemm.eeOP
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      Distancing yourself from yourself, like an external narrator

      • Inucune@lemmy.world
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        More the equivalent of a parent using your full name before telling you to do something… But it is your own mental monologue.

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    There are multiple voices, one says “I” while the others respond with “you” if they are disagreeing, or “we” if they agree.

    • I should shave
    • Yes we should
    • No, you shouldn’t. You look stupid.
    • I think that’s right, I’m not shaving.
  • darkmarx@lemmy.world
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    Depends which part of myself I’m talking to. If it’s just a general conversation, it’s “we.” If it’s more of a direct conversation to a part of my mind, it’s “you.” If I’m talking about myself to a third-party, such as this response, it’s “I.”

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    Both. “I am an idiot.” “You should know better.”

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