Hello again Lemmy! I have another question.

Context: I took a motorcycle safety class, was nervous but enjoyed it, researched motorcycles, found a few I liked, talked to a dealer about them but ultimately, I couldn’t finalize a deal, talked myself out of it basically

I was curious how others might justify a purchase that has no purpose other than wanting something.

For clarity, I don’t need anyone to justify me buying a motorcycle. I want to read about your thought processes for buying something you want 🙂

As always thanks for replying and have an awesome day/night!!

  • razorcandy@discuss.tchncs.de
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    5 days ago

    I ask myself: can I afford it? Do I already have something similar? Do I see myself using it often? That last question is where you need to be honest with yourself, because it’s easy to find yourself neglecting a new purchase after the initial excitement wears off.

    Depending on what the item is, you can sample or borrow/rent it to see if it sticks. You can also set a “waiting period” for yourself, and buy it if you still want it after that period ends. Sometimes the craving passes by then.

    You have to find pleasures in life too, so if you can fit it into your budget and think you will get good use out of it, why not get it?

    You have a nice day/night too!

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      5 days ago

      That last question truly is the one that I get stuck on a lot. I think I will, then I don’t. Then I feel bad.

      The waiting period is definitely a good thing.

      Finding in pleasure in life is important for sure. We should be spending as much of our time as possible doing just that!!

      Thank you for the response!!