• Ceedoestrees@lemmy.world
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    5 days ago

    This sounds like a guy I wouldn’t want approaching me.

    Don’t. You want to meet someone? Do things you like that involve other people and naturally encourage conversation. Sign up for shit. Volunteer.

    Think about how you’d react if a rando woman approached you. Actually don’t, let’s add something to that. Think about how you would feel if a rando woman, who you don’t find attractive, approached you after you’ve been told to smile by the barrista who made your coffee, after six guys at work tried to explain the basics of your job to you when you have seniority, and your soon to be ex partner suggested you should start waxing your upper lip five minutes before you had to leave for work, after the security guard at a grocery store followed you outside at night to ask for your phone number.

    Go do hobbies.