This is becoming more common in my town. I just either feel like an ass saying I dont have cash, or lying, but I also can’t be giving out 20’s to everyone who asks.

I feel bad for most of them but at the same time I get anxiety walking down the sidewalk and seeing someone up ahead that I know is going to ask me for money. Its not like you can say “oh no, I donate to services that help the needy” because that person isn’t necessarily being helped by that. And ignoring completely feels so mean, plus I tried that one time and the person was screaming at me as i walked away that I ignored them.

I also dont want my city to round them up and send them to prison camps, something they are planning and that I know a lot of people would vote for just to “get rid of them” but im not supporting that at all.

Its tough.

  • ReluctantMuskrat@lemmy.world
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    6 hours ago

    This is what I did when I used to work downtown and encounter them frequently. They usually tell you why they want money… usually food, but sometimes a bus ticket or gas. I always say I don’t have or won’t give you cash but let’s go and I’ll buy you what you need. More than half of them would give up and walk away when they realized you wouldn’t just give them cash. Never ended buying any gas or a bus ticket, but I did buy quite a few meals and even groceries a couple times. Most were incredibly appreciative.

    • Trainguyrom@reddthat.comEnglish
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      1 hour ago

      Part of the reason for those who won’t accept anything but cash is purely because they’re not actually homeless but instead learned that they can make more begging than they can working a crap fast food job for example. I’ve even heard of groups of people coordinating their efforts so they can make sure they aren’t oversaturating a given part of town or in a some cases pooling the takings at the end of the day to help even out the inevitable variability

      • ReluctantMuskrat@lemmy.world
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        12 minutes ago

        Certainly there are people that do that or want to use the money for drugs, which is why I always volunteer to buy it for them vs give them money. And I don’t carry cash anyway.

        If they’re genuinely hustling for cash they’re unlikely to walk away with you to get food, a bus ticket, whatever because they’re wasting time. I’ve had a few take me up on the offer and then still try to talk me out of cash while walking, but most hustlers just walk away immediately when you call their bluff and offer to buy it for them.