I made a similar post a couple of years ago, but I think it’s time again after seeing a few nice-guy/incel posts here. So, guys who have made it to the other side, what would you say to your previous self? I’ll leave my own personal answer in a comment below.
I can, but I prefer people that are more knowledgeable to do the talking.
Read On Ugliness edited by Umberto Eco . This book will explain my viewpoint better than I can ever do.