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she/they - lesbian
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@drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zonecreatorto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•would dating my ex friend be worth it, do you think he could love me and would calm down if i said yes or am i just thinking this out of sadness?English4•1Mthanks so much 🫂 gave me the ick a little that he barely acknowledged that i liked girls. he only cared about if i liked guys or had a bf, he only got upset when i liked a guy.
it’s almost as if he was trying to act like i was straight, which was a bit insulting to me. if i had a gf/liked a girl, he would act like that meant i was just single and not attracted to anyone at all.
@drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zonecreatorto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•would dating my ex friend be worth it, do you think he could love me and would calm down if i said yes or am i just thinking this out of sadness?English8•2Mthanks so much, i blocked him because he wouldn’t stop harassing me. he told me to ditch my bf for him and didn’t care that i didn’t have feelings for him. in fact, he didn’t care much about my personality or identity so long as i was his girlfriend. that’s all he saw, nothing else outside of that.
and even though he wanted me to “take my time”, he was convinced i was his future wife despite only having known me for about a week all because i was pretty and nice to him.
he also didn’t actually care whether or not i liked him, he just wanted me to say yes regardless. i feel like since that was his first time, he’d have sex with me, force me into doing it if i said no, and then break up and badmouth me.
@drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zonecreatorto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•would dating my ex friend be worth it, do you think he could love me and would calm down if i said yes or am i just thinking this out of sadness?English6•2Mi didn’t know all the details, he just said that she showed signs of schizophrenia and acted weird. i didn’t know her and didn’t know their relationship, but i know he did leave her because she had hallucinations, paranoia, thought objects were real (like dolls), and apparently age regressed a lot. he said she got too clingy and “weird” and even “crazy” for his liking. (which ik that word is stigmatizing in that context because in high school, we were told not to call ppl who showed signs of mental illness crazy)




@drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zonecreatorto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•what’s the difference of behaviors between a person with npd and just an asshole?English5•2Mthis lady who was my friend for a while is mean a lot because she has anger issues and is just a generally miserable, rude person. she is also autistic (i believe) like me, and gets overstimulated and is rude to everyone when they start talking all at once.
however, she is also especially cruel when she wants some sort of goal, and acts superior to everyone else. you’re a useless loser no matter how hard you try, and you are disgusting to be around. how dare you stand less than 10 yards from her?! you’re lucky to even be in her presence.
also, she is “always better than you” and cannot admit being wrong or take accountability.




it was bc my current gf hated that i was a trans man