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Ahh I see, now I get it. I never quite understood the need for the (he/she/them) when meeting new groups because I always felt aggressively apathetic to my own pronouns; sort of a “I don’t care what you call me it doesn’t change my feeling of me”. But your comment and this chain helped that click for me!

This has always been the hardest part for me; the amount of technical information on Reddit is so valuable and trumps the rest of the Internet in it’s esoteric specifics. It makes not looking through it’s threads when I’m looking for specific information feel nigh impossible…