For many gay men, the “Do I want to date him or be him?” Issue can cut hard, so I’m not sure it’s that weird.

It’s the only way Lady Supermans can get off

I bought a Harbor Freight brand SawStop and honestly I’m almost typing at full speed again on 9 fingers now

Because we are the wolf we feed, or the monster - if we lean into fetishizing entire races, we justify that behavior and reenforce it, normalizing reducing an immutable trait into a sexual characteristic. Vs thinking “hey maybe I shouldn’t be spending all my time looking at only BBC-worship photos because it fucks up the way I treat black men” etc (to use one that comes up in the gay community a lot).

I am of the mind that it’s not healthy to be ashamed or upset by what turns us on, but that we shouldn’t intentionally try to get problematic with it either, as sex can get compulsive pretty quick. So don’t fetishize races.

Also a very specific lab-made meme genotype and a line of candles from Bath and Body Works

VA = federally owned and operated. This was done by design.

It’s pretty bleak yes, our own families sold us out for this shit in their malicious ignorance, I just heard a VA employee tell me an email went out advising all hospital staff to remove rainbow lanyards or stickers or anything “safe space” identifying in their offices, because some patient had complained. This came out while we’re helping my gay veteran friend get ready to die of cancer. Cause he shouldn’t feel safe in the hospital or anything.

narrator: they did not