I think I got a crush on my dance instructor. Which fucking sucks for all the obvious reasons. Normally I wouldn’t be so worried. BUT I JUST HAD A GODDAMN ROMANTIC DREAM ABOUT HER. Seriously I just woke up from a dream about her confessing her love to me and me eagerly doing the same about her.
So how do you stop a crush from developing further? Because this is a well from which only disappointment may be drawn.
Edit: I am single btw.
2 methods that I can think-of that might work, quickly enough for you:
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deliberately develop a crush on someone else, like Lena Headey, or someone, whom you are not going to meet weekly, and
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deliberately imagine her having total romancing with someone whom you both respect, value, & wouldn’t violate-their-boundaries.
Obviously, combining these 2 methods would be stronger.
Salut, Namaste, & Kaizen
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