Be interested = be interesting. Go do shit. Any shit. Join social causes. Figure out what you’re passionate about and figure out how to join others in doing it. People are attracted to passion. If what you’re interested in doesn’t have any social avenues where you’re at, start it up. Create a Facebook page or group for it (or something better than Facebook but it’s unfortunately the most useful in my area).

You are most likely to find friends and partners doing the things you love.

Don’t try to fix loneliness by finding a “partner”.

Fix your loneliness and in the process you’ll either find a partner or stop caring as much. But very few healthy people want a lonely partner.

Even if you’re so lonely you’re uncomfortable around people, go volunteer at a Humane society and start walking dogs. It’ll ease you into human interaction, but everyone’s focus is on the dogs.

But just look in general for anything that helps the community, a lot of people are wired to want to contribute to a group task. And even if you’re incredibly rusty with social skills, when you’re volunteering for a good cause people overlook a lot of weird stuff people do/say.

Can you expand on why you can’t find people to form a relationship?