I can’t find people to form relationships with.
How am I supposed to find a friend or even a partner, if I can’t find anyone to talk to long-term to form relationships?
Where are the other people looking for friends or partners?
How to solve this puzzle?
Don’t try to fix loneliness by finding a “partner”.
Fix your loneliness and in the process you’ll either find a partner or stop caring as much. But very few healthy people want a lonely partner.
Even if you’re so lonely you’re uncomfortable around people, go volunteer at a Humane society and start walking dogs. It’ll ease you into human interaction, but everyone’s focus is on the dogs.
But just look in general for anything that helps the community, a lot of people are wired to want to contribute to a group task. And even if you’re incredibly rusty with social skills, when you’re volunteering for a good cause people overlook a lot of weird stuff people do/say.