This is becoming more common in my town. I just either feel like an ass saying I dont have cash, or lying, but I also can’t be giving out 20’s to everyone who asks.
I feel bad for most of them but at the same time I get anxiety walking down the sidewalk and seeing someone up ahead that I know is going to ask me for money. Its not like you can say “oh no, I donate to services that help the needy” because that person isn’t necessarily being helped by that. And ignoring completely feels so mean, plus I tried that one time and the person was screaming at me as i walked away that I ignored them.
I also dont want my city to round them up and send them to prison camps, something they are planning and that I know a lot of people would vote for just to “get rid of them” but im not supporting that at all.
Its tough.
My brother has told me many times before that giving them money ain’t gonna do nothing because that’s money that they can use for drugs if they’re addicted. He says buying them food is better.
As messed up as it is, kinda gotta agree, especially since zi don’t know who’s an addict and who’s not.
I normally ignore them because I don’t keep physical cash on me unless I’m making an as discrete as possible purchase. It may sound kinda cruel, but I find it easy for me to just ignore them and pretend they don’t exist. Don’t know whether that’s more of a personality thing with me or because of my autism already making me less likely to wanna deal with people in general.
My name is not “hey mister” so I don’t think it’s rude to ignore. Especially since they’re going to give you a line about having to get gas to visit their kid. Let’s skip the lying and get right to the point.