So… then host your own instance and set up your own rules and mod /de-federate how you see fit?

It’s an offer you don’t have to take as-is, and this shows it’s the exact opposite of a failure: you can be the change you demand from others.

Hello!

Crashed into a car with my bike with no helmet (always wear a helmet people!) and lost all memory. My head hurt for a year afterwards when I tried to read something. Years later, the patch is still numb to the touch, and causes a sensation of stinging in one eye, it causes tears if I rub it.

Tête de Moine

(not a lady, but I am witness to the fascinating effect of more than one lady)